Maryland Divorce Checklist — Step-by-Step (2026)

This checklist reflects Maryland's 2023 divorce law reform. Be sure you are using the updated post-2023 forms from mdcourts.gov/legalhelp/familylawforms — older forms are no longer valid.


Phase 1 — Pre-Filing

  • Confirm residency requirement is met (current MD resident; OR 6 months in MD if grounds occurred out of state)
  • Choose your path:
    • Mutual consent (both agree + signed Settlement Agreement) — OR
    • 6-month separation — OR
    • Irreconcilable differences
  • Identify Circuit Court in your county (or your spouse's county)
  • Gather all financial documentation:
    • Recent pay stubs (last 2–3)
    • Last 2–3 years of federal and state tax returns
    • All bank and savings account statements
    • Investment account statements
    • Retirement account statements (401k, IRA, pension — marital portion)
    • Mortgage statement (balance, payoff, monthly payment)
    • Vehicle loan statements
    • Credit card and other debt statements
    • Business interest documentation (if applicable)
  • List all marital property (acquired during marriage)
  • List all separate property (pre-marital, gifts, inheritances) — keep records proving separate character

Phase 2 — Mutual Consent Path: Draft the Settlement Agreement

  • Negotiate all terms with your spouse:
    • All marital real property (division or sale, equity split, refinancing)
    • All marital financial accounts (bank, investment, retirement)
    • All marital debts (assign; indemnification)
    • Separate property (confirm stays with original owner)
    • Alimony (type, amount, duration — or written waiver)
    • If children: legal custody, physical custody, parenting schedule, child support
  • Draft the Settlement Agreement
  • Both spouses sign the Settlement Agreement (notarization recommended)

Phase 3 — Complete Required Forms

  • Download post-2023 forms from mdcourts.gov/legalhelp/familylawforms:
    • Complaint for Absolute Divorce (use current 2023+ version)
    • Domestic Case Information Report
    • Summons (if serving Defendant)
    • Acceptance of Service (if Defendant will sign voluntarily)
    • Financial Statement (if alimony is at issue)
    • Child Support Worksheet (if minor children)
    • Parenting Plan (if minor children)
  • Attach signed Settlement Agreement (mutual consent path)

Phase 4 — File at Circuit Court

  • Make 3+ complete copies of the packet
  • File at the Circuit Court clerk's office
  • Pay the $165 filing fee
  • Receive case number

Phase 5 — Service

  • Mutual consent: Defendant files Acceptance of Service OR is formally served
  • 6-month separation: serve Defendant via certified mail, sheriff, or process server
  • Confirm proof of service is filed with the court

Phase 6 — The Hearing

  • Schedule the final hearing with the court
  • Both spouses attend (mutual consent — both typically attend)
  • Bring originals and copies of all filed documents
  • Provide brief testimony
  • Judge enters Judgment of Absolute Divorce
  • Request certified copies of the Judgment (get 3–5 copies)

Phase 7 — Post-Divorce

  • Name restoration: File with SSA → Maryland MVA → bank accounts
  • Real estate: Prepare deed (Deed of Conveyance / Special Warranty Deed) → record at county land records office
  • Vehicles: Maryland MVA title transfer
  • Retirement accounts: QDRO for employer plans; IRA transfer for IRAs
  • Beneficiary designations: Update all — 401k, IRA, life insurance, annuities
  • Health insurance: Arrange new coverage within COBRA window (60 days)

Quick Reference — 2023 Reform

Old Law (pre-Oct 2023)New Law (post-Oct 2023)
12-month separation requiredNo separation required for mutual consent
Fault grounds availableFault grounds eliminated
Limited or absolute divorceBoth still available
Irreconcilable differences — NOT availableIrreconcilable differences — NOW available

Last reviewed: March 2026 | Use only post-2023 forms from mdcourts.gov | Mutual consent = fastest path — no separation required

SL

SoLongSoulmate.com Editorial Team

Researched using official state court websites and verified legal aid resources. Filing fees and procedures verified June 2026. General legal information only — not legal advice.

Last reviewed: March 2026 · Verify current fees and forms with your local court before filing.